I think I should change the title to in and out of marriage on this one. But I think ill keep it for the continuity sake. It’s almost unbelievable with the amount of marriages and the simultaneous divorces that are happening around me. And what is surprising with most of the divorces are that it is not because one of them had an extra marital affair. Surprisingly!!! Most people say that they just can’t get along. I can empathize with most of them. I wouldn’t want to spend the rest of my life with somebody who I can’t get along with either.
In our parent’s generation, divorce was not an option. U make it work no matter what, was the attitude. The trend so far in our generation is well! If it does not work, cut your losses and move on.
Don’t get me wrong. I ain’t judging anybody. I am sure everyone had a genuine reason why things din’t work out. I am just trying to figure out what the winning formula is to make it work though. So far, I’ve got none.
PS: by the looks of it, my new business plan should be to find a winning formula and I would be a millionaire in no time… lol
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but I strongly believe that our parents' stance of stick-together-even-if-we-hate-it was only as bad as the rising trend of to-hell-with-staying-together-if-we-cant-get-along.
ReplyDeleteits about balance...when ur exit strategy is paramount, u tend to lean towards that instead of trying to dig ur heels in, gritting ur teeth, and making it WORK (key word being work).