There are countless movies and books about falling in love. However, I wonder how many books and movies are there about falling out of love. It truly is not a sought out topic for obvious reasons, not a topic that is going to be a huge money spinner either. But as realistic as falling in love.
Like everything in life has an entry and an exit point, so do relationships. People fall out of love for no reason at all. Don’t get me wrong, I am sure they still care for the person. But really, is that a good enough reason to stay in the relationship. Food for thought!!
PS: Ran, u were asking me the other day for a theme to write a book about, here’s number one
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Food for thought indeed!
ReplyDeleteMethinks the falling out of love happens when we stop growing with our partner. (?!)
What says you..
i agree with you... And hence my phobia towards anything that has to do with long term relationships....
ReplyDeleteau contraire chach (and u know I'M no romantic!), ur just chicken on a long term one 'cuz u feel ur space et all will get compromised. but my point is (and this is not easy) u tend to (or must,really!) redefine ur space to include the 'significant other', see?
ReplyDelete@ nimisha: i agree with u
oh yes. the space. But if we actually do do grow together.. there ne'er would be paucity of space.
ReplyDeleteit's a vicious circle that we live really, rani. where we strive to get closer and then strive even harder to stay away! :P
"But if we actually do do grow together.. there ne'er would be paucity of space."
ReplyDeletenow thats a big If! Huge! Nimisha esp if ur considering to make a life time comitment
yep!! Intrusion of space is a problem ran!! it really is not about defining and redefining ur space. its about whether u feel happy sharing it!! When it comes down to it, i am a little possesive about it.